Erin Metcalf: Strength to Live Life to the Fullest
"We cannot help but feel that Erin is smiling from ear to ear as the Moyer's continue their work."
In 1998, Karen and Jamie attended a Make A Wish dinner with Cathy and Jeff 'Fassero, another Mariner pitcher. At the dinner, they met Michele and Jerry Metcalf and their 15-year-old daughter, Erin, a cancer patient from Seattle.
The Moyer's lived ups and downs with Erin, creating many fond and powerful memories. Erin gave them strength to live life to the fullest and to believe that, through strong faith, death is acceptable. Her spirit carries through Karen and Jamie both on and off the pitcher's mound.
Erin Metcalf, then a 17-year-old organ transplant recipient, inspired Karen and Jamie about life and faith and ultimately, acceptance. At a baseball game soon after Erin's passing, Jamie wrote her initials on the pitcher's mound and dedicated a game to her.
Erin was an organ transplant patient too. The Moyer Foundation has been fully committed to Life Center Northwest Organ and Tissue Awareness. Through the 1st Jamie Moyer Invitational Bowling Tournament, funds were raised for this very cause.
"Throughout Erin's illness, Karen and Jamie would call at the most critical time. They seemed to have a sixth sense when something catastrophic was happening in Erin's treatment. Each time they contacted us, we would see an immediate improvement in Erin's outlook and attitude. We do believe they contributed in a very direct way to Erin's length of life. She was given three to four months, but lived nearly two and a half years. We cannot help but feel that Erin is smiling from ear to ear as the Moyer's continue their work." Michele Metcalf. (Erin's mother)
In Erin's memory, "Camp Erin," a bereavement camp for children has been set up in Snohomish County. The Moyer Foundation hosted the 2nd Annual Jamie Moyer Invitational Bowling Tournament to fully endow this camp through Providence Hospice.
A Life's Worth of Medical Challenges Before the Age of 18
"The Aspelund's inspire The Moyer Foundation to help other families in need."
Karen and Jamie Moyer met 14-year-old North Aspelund five years ago when Jamie was asked by the Mariners to visit a patient at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center. North's medical history is longer than any person should ever have in one lifetime.
Since January 2001, North and his mother, father, and sister have become great friends of the Moyer's. The Aspelund's have also become great Mariner fans since coming to Seattle from Alaska in 1996.
In November, 1992, at the age of 4 ½, North was diagnosed with A.L.L. (acute lymphocytic leukemia). North received his treatments at Children's Hospital in Seattle. Boys usually do treatments for three years or more. So for three years, the Aspelund's flew from Anchorage to Seattle so North could seek medical care.
North's treatment stopped in early 1996 as physicians hoped that North had finished chemo and that life would be normal. Unfortunately, that's not how things worked out. In July of 1996, a tumor was found in North's right groin area. The diagnosis was a relapse of his leukemia in the form of a testicular leukemic tumor. When pathology looked at the bone marrow, it too had a lot of cancer. The treatment plan was a bone marrow transplant.
He received a bone marrow transplant in November of 1996 from an un-related donor who they call their "ANGEL." North began to have some problems immediately after transplant. And, until December of 1999, he was taking up to 73 pills a day. At this time he began feeling worse and was admitted to the hospital. The diagnosis was influenza. He began treatment and, within a few days, was feeling much better. He was to be discharged from the Hospital the day before his 12th birthday (Dec 22).
However, the doctor wanted one more scan done of North's pancreas since he had problems in the past. To everyone's sadness a large mass was found on North's right kidney.
He was discharged on his birthday. Two months later in February 2000, he would undergo a 5-hour surgery to remove his right kidney. The Aspelund's hope to begin to taper off some of his medicines.
Until that time, they plan to make Seattle their home. The Aspelund's sold their house in Alaska, so that they could be closer to the best care possible. North continues to receive medical care at both Children's and the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center.
The Moyer Foundation has great compassion for what the Aspelund's have gone through and continue to go through. The Moyer's try to help whenever they can. Karen and Jamie have helped make possible many happy memories including North throwing out the first pitch at a Mariners game, as well as being an honorary member of the Magnolia Little League team. And Brooke, North's sister, has her artwork in a Mariners wives cookbook. The amazing thing about the Aspelund's is that they all still have time to help The Moyer Foundation. They help with fundraisers, errands, and all sorts of tasks at the office. The Aspelund's inspire The Moyer Foundation to help other families in need, and North's sense of humor reminds us not to take life too seriously.
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